
13 romantic weekend escapes for couples across the USA
The Bixby Bridge in Big Sur, California. oliverdelahaye/Shutterstock
Sometimes you just need to leave work and everyday life in the rearview mirror and book a romantic getaway to reconnect with your beloved.
We scoured the USA to find 13 perfect weekend breaks that cater to couples of all tastes. From mountains to beaches, cities to small towns, sprawling national parks to epic West Coast road trips, these are the top romantic destinations to discover.
1. Big Sur, California
Best for couples who love the open road
Enjoy quality time with breathtaking views on one of the USA’s most celebrated road trips. Big Sur’s wild stretch of Hwy 1 matches unparalleled vistas with hidden beaches, hiking opportunities, bubbling hot springs and excellent dining. This scenic highway is the perfect choice for couples looking to hit the road and reconnect with nature, without going totally rustic.
What’s more, the drive is better as a duo: if you take turns behind the wheel, you’ll both have a chance to look out the window at the incredible views. (Just be sure to check your route before you set out, as rockslides, flooding, wildfires and auto accidents can all trigger road closures.)
Start north of Big Sur at Carmel-by-the-Sea. Give yourself time to explore a village renowned for its artistic charm, from its galleries and shopping to its 18th-century mission. On your way south, stop at Point Lobos State Natural Reserve to watch the sea lions cavorting on the coast, then pause near the highly Instagrammable Bixby Bridge to snap a pic or two.
2. Key Biscayne, Florida
Best for sun-seeking couples
Less than 10 miles from downtown Miami, Key Biscayne isn’t technically part of the city but is close and continuous enough that it could be an outer neighborhood – if it didn’t feel so darn different. The scene-y clubs, quiet white-sand beaches, bike-friendly streets and water sports galore on this barrier island promise to transport you and your loved one far from the urban clamor.
Between its 19th-century lighthouse – the oldest standing structure in all of Florida – and its 1.25-mile natural beach, Bill Baggs Cape Florida State Park is a must visit. Couples can recharge together under an umbrella or paddle a kayak for two on the ocean waves.
If you’re arriving by sea, head straight for Boater’s Grill, where you can dock at No Name Harbor and tuck into bacalao fritters and fresh-caught snapper. The Rusty Pelican is another local institution that’s been going strong after more than half a century. Reserve a table for brunch or sunset to make the most of the magnificent waterfront location on Rickenbacker Marina.
3. Monadnock Region, New Hampshire
Best for small-town-loving couples
The southwest corner of New Hampshire is dotted with historic New England towns that exude charm and provide a backdrop for romantic touring by car. Make a weekend of it by hitting the back roads and driving your way from village to village, one white church spire and town green at a time.
Harrisville (population 1003) boasts a beautifully preserved redbrick mill once powered by the waterfall that flows next to it; today, it’s home to knitting outfitter Harrisville Designs. After a walk around the village (it won’t take long), stop for lunch at the picture-perfect Harrisville General Store. Nearby Hancock (population 1731) has one of the loveliest Main Streets around, lined with graceful homes with huge porches and white picket fences. The Inn at Hancock dates back to 1789 and is a popular spot for dining.
Peterborough (in these parts, a small city with a population of 6433 people) is the regional hub for the arts, and its small streets are filled with galleries and original shops. (It’s also a creative muse itself, supposedly serving as the inspiration for Grover’s Corners in Thornton Wilder’s Our Town.)
You won’t have to drive far to see the massif that lends its name to the area. If you’re after a bit of exertion after all that car time, the moderate hike up Mt Monadnock, one of the world’s most-climbed mountains, comes with a major payoff at its rocky, 3165ft summit. Take in 360-degree views that on clear days stretch as far as Boston, about 75 miles away.
4. Williamsburg, New York City
Best for gourmet couples
Even in New York City’s standout restaurant scene, North Brooklyn enjoys a particular embarrassment of riches. Base yourself in Williamsburg and you’ll be in the center of the action.
When you’re after a fun date of cha siu ribs and MSG martinis, Cantonese American Bonnie’s is the hot ticket. On the northern edge of the neighborhood, KRU does modern twists on Thai classics in industrial-chic, apothecary-esque environs. For a casual bite, Taqueria Ramírez slings meaty Mexico City–style tacos from a subway-tiled storefront in neighboring Greenpoint; come prepared to queue up for tripa, campechano, longaniza, suadero and al pastor on weekends.
5. Joshua Tree National Park, California
Best for couples who love outdoor adventures
The two distinct desert ecosystems in Joshua Tree National Park present myriad opportunities for open-air bonding: spring wildflowers, stunning sunsets and epic stargazing. If you prefer to stroll hand in hand, there are short walks and nature trails, with more strenuous treks, cycling, backpacking and rock climbing if you’d rather work up a sweat. (However you get out and about, pack more water than you’ll think you’ll need in this hot, dry, gorgeous place.)
Parking your car at on-site campgrounds is one option, but renting romantic accommodations nearby takes things up a notch. Barely 10 miles from the park gate, Cascade Trails Mustang Sanctuary sets up five glamping tents alongside equine experiences, such as sunset trail excursions and private stargazing rides (bookable even if you’re not staying overnight).
Take a dip in the heated pool, then cozy up in a sleek Airstream trailer at AutoCamp Joshua Tree. Or hit the mineral spa and pool at the adults-only, clothing-optional Mi Kasa Hot Springs. Celebrating something special? Peruse Plum Guide’s listings for a private abode.
6. Santa Fe, New Mexico
Best for couples who love mixing old and new
Founded by the Spanish more than 400 years ago, Santa Fe is now a center of artistic innovation. Strict planning laws mandate the use of adobe in all construction (even gas stations), giving the city its signature earth-toned look and sense of architectural harmony and continuity. Yet riots of color and imagination lie behind those earthen walls.
In and around the historic Plaza, world-class museums showcase paintings by famous resident Georgia O’Keeffe, as well as new work by local Indigenous artists. Further afield, the Museum of International Folk Art teems with everything from brightly painted masks and carved dolls to beaded jewelry (it’s the world’s largest such collection).
But perhaps no site exemplifies Santa Fe’s free-spirited inventiveness better than Meow Wolf. An artist collective has transformed a former bowling alley (donated by another Santa Fe creative, George RR Martin, of Game of Thrones fame) into an immersive wonderland. The attraction features trippy lights, hidden passageways and a head-scratching narrative to guide visitors through the madness. Rather than stepping into history, here you’ll feel as if you have stepped into another dimension.
7. Aspen, Colorado
Best for high-rolling couples
Ritzy Aspen is a legendary celebrity hangout, particularly during the peak winter months. The perfect powder, jaw-dropping real estate and impeccable dining options draw a steady crowd of A-listers – and prices to match. That said, it’s not all about the snow days: with biking, hiking and cultural events during the other months of the year, Aspen is a true four-season destination. Despite a decent selection of free things to do, planning a budget weekend here would be a tall order, but Aspen is a great place to go all out.
If you’re that other kind of high-rolling couple, there’s plenty for you as well. As in the rest of Colorado, Aspen has a selection of recreational and medical marijuana dispensaries. Silverpeak is an upscale boutique that showcases its organic cannabis in custom cases surrounded by rich wood and natural light. The chic retailer sells a large selection of products, from flowers and edibles to concentrates and accessories.
8. Rogers Park, Chicago
Best for culture-oriented couples
Hyde Park, Bucktown and Wicker Park are three Chicago neighborhoods well known for architectural bona fides and trendsetting, art-inspired style. To mingle with a crowd of diverse creatives, ride the L to Rogers Park. With 60-plus languages spoken and too many cuisines to count – from Caribbean to Japanese to Ethiopian to Mexican – the Far North Side community has plenty of delights to discover.
During the day, check out the Mile of Murals on Glenwood Ave and wander through the galleries and studios of the Glenwood Arts District. Stop by the Leather Archives & Museum for a peek at the history and culture of leather, kink, fetish and BDSM.
By night, catch original works at the Factory Theater, world music and magicians at Rhapsody Theater, and stories from underrepresented communities (expressed via stage combat!) at Babes With Blades. Then grab a nightcap at the romantic Le Piano, an intimate bar and performance space anchored by – yes – a grand piano.
9. Washington, Virginia
Best for history-loving couples
About a 90-minute drive west of Washington, DC, in the beautiful Shenandoah Valley, the country’s original Washington sits in the shadow of the Blue Ridge Mountains. Expect a quaint small town with world-famous accommodations. The Inn at Little Washington is beloved for its tasting menus, and you just might spot members of the other Washington’s elite at the next table over (book ahead).
Sip a glass of locally made wine at Gadino Cellars or Little Washington Winery, then duck in and out of the village’s shops and galleries. Head underground to check out the biggest caverns in the eastern US. You can also paddle on the Shenandoah River or motor south to Skyline Dr and hit the rest of nearby Shenandoah National Park for incredible hiking trails and stunning views.
10. San Juan, Puerto Rico
Best for LGBTQ+ couples
One of the most welcoming destinations in Puerto Rico – and the entire Caribbean – for LGBTQ+ travelers, San Juan is a warm-weather retreat with gay-friendly neighborhoods, accommodations, nightlife and restaurants. To keep things lively, a Queer Filmfest takes place in the spring, as well as an epic Pride celebration in June (book accommodations well ahead of time). And all of this is just a couple of hours by plane from most cities on the East Coast.
You and your partner can hit one of two unofficial gay beaches, then prepare for a big night out at the capital’s fun LGBTQ+ bars. Catch a drag show at Kweens Klub, dance up a storm at La Placita, down strong drinks at Tía Maria Liquor Store, or make friends at La Sombrilla Rosa.
Looking to treat yourselves to a nice meal? Order broiled lobster and booze-filled coconut drinks at the gay-owned Ostra Cosa, or head to Jose Santaella’s gay-friendly namesake for contemporary Puerto Rican fare in a beautifully designed space.
As for accommodations, Coqui del Mar is an adults-only, gay-owned guesthouse in Ocean Park, with a clothing-optional pool and first-floor studios complete with two-person walk-in showers. You can also join group excursions to the rainforest and the island’s stunning white sand beaches. The all-vegetarian, gay-owned boutique Dreamcatcher is also in Ocean Park, while the adults-only Condado Ocean Club faces the sea in – you guessed it – Condado.
11. Asheville, North Carolina
Best for couples on a budget
An accessible location nestled in the mountains of North Carolina, scenic vistas, plentiful attractions and a bohemian vibe make Asheville one of the best weekend getaways on the East Coast. Despite its popularity, the city has retained its eclectic charm and budget-friendly appeal – ideal for couples in search of a romantic escape that won’t break the bank.
You and your loved one can spend the day hiking past hardwood trees, white water rivers and cascading waterfalls in Pisgah National Forest. Strip down for a ride on a 60ft natural waterslide at Sliding Rock, or strap in for a simulated helicopter flight at the Cradle of Forestry. Just 2 miles from downtown, the Asheville Botanical Gardens are perfect for a quiet afternoon stroll; admission and parking are free, and visitors are welcome daily from sunrise to sunset.
Downtown Asheville is brimming with wallet-friendly attractions, from bustling farmers markets and live music to quirky museums and colorful street art. Wander through the thriving creative community in the River Arts District before having some fried-to-order Hole Doughnuts and what’s on tap at New Belgium Brewing.
Extend your stay and spend a day exploring the sprawling grounds of the Biltmore Estate, a French Renaissance–style château featuring lavish gardens, over 20 miles of trails and an award-winning winery.
12. Cape Cod, Massachusetts
Best for couples seeking peace and quiet
Distinguished by its coastal charm and natural beauty, Cape Cod is an idyllic destination for those seeking a tranquil escape. Here you’ll find plenty of things to do, from climbing historic lighthouses and sampling fresh seafood to leisurely strolling along wide, sandy beaches.
You'll likely want to travel to the hook-shaped peninsula by car, but once there, rent bikes to explore pretty Provincetown at Cape Cod's northern tip before getting away from it all at Cape Cod National Seashore – 40 miles of pristine beaches, salt marshes and forest trails. Between May and October, you can join a whale-watching excursion to catch a glimpse of majestic sea life.
From pilgrims and pirates to the USA’s oldest professional summer theater, Cape Cod is a haven for lovers of American history and culture. The Pilgrim Monument and Provincetown Museum brings the area’s fascinating past to life, while visitors who make the climb to the top are rewarded with breathtaking views.
If you're planning to propose during your trip, Truro Vineyards, the Aquinnah Cliffs in Martha’s Vineyard and Nauset Light Beach all feature picturesque backdrops for popping the question.
13. Park City, Utah
Best for couples who love the slopes
Once a silver mining town, Park City is the ultimate romantic getaway for couples who love to snuggle up by the fireplace after a day on the ski slopes, surrounded by stunning mountain vistas. This charming town, tucked among the Wasatch Mountains near Salt Lake City, offers a unique blend of natural beauty, intriguing history, vibrant culture and year-round outdoor adventures. Although there’s lots to do every season, Park City truly shines in winter.
The iconic Main Street has retained its signature character with boutique shops, lively festivals and innovative bars and restaurants. Skiing, snowboarding and snow tubing are the main attractions here, with three world-class resorts to explore. Sports fans may catch a glimpse of the US Ski Team practicing at Utah Olympic Park, home of the 2002 Winter Games. While on-site, journey through local skiing history in the Alf Engen Ski Museum.
In upscale Deer Valley, you’ll find luxurious accommodations, with spas; ski-in, ski-out access to the country’s top ski resort; and fine dining (make reservations in advance). Take the funicular up to the terrace at the St Regis for the champagne sabering ritual at dusk.
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